Healing from Covert Narcissistic Parenting: Guilt and Breaking the Invisible Loyalty | Epi 140

In this episode, I share another clip from my conversation on Trusting After Trauma: Redefining Relationships After Parental Narcissistic Abuse, hosted by Pi Venus Winslow. In this segment, we explore why separating from a covertly narcissistic parent does not just feel frightening—it can feel deeply disloyal. We examine the guilt that surfaces when setting boundaries, the anger that often masks unresolved grief, and the unconscious loyalty that keeps many adult children emotionally stuck. The conversation underscores that healing is not about dramatic confrontation, but about reclaiming your internal world—strengthening your capacity to mentalize, recognizing what was internalized in childhood, and gradually separating your identity from the parent who shaped it. Trusting After Trauma - Starting Tuesday, April 7th:   https://trustingaftertraumasummit.com/DrAnthonyMazzella If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.   Want to go deeper? Join me in Office Hours — an open space where we explore psychoanalytic ideas together, answer your questions, and connect theory to real life experiences. Reserve your spot here   Next Meeting: Stay Tuned!   Contact me Directly with observations, questions or comments:   [email protected]  You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on:  https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/  https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder  https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder   Dr. Mazzella’s personal website: drmazzella.com Dr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in narcissism, personality disorders, and relational dynamics.